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I'm with Luci. Whenever a girl comes along that I might have a shot with, I spend weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks bitching about how it won't work between us and how I should just not even think about it. Unless you see something wrong with her habits where you absolutely cannot do it (I couldn't do smoking, for example, because it gives me migraines), just try it and see where it takes you.
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Yeahhh. Josh has issues like that. I'm sure I could pull up a good 6-8 convos about his bitching. But uh.. Luci actually gives good advice there. Haha.
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@ Josh no it was Delia park but nice. XD @ Luci, thanks for the advice. I think that is what I'm doing now. Over the past week (spring break) we've been hanging out a lot. Do I want a relationship? Maybe? =/ I'm not chasing her around being like "hey be my girl friend." *five minutes later* "Hey be my girl friend." I don't know I guess I'm over complicating it in my head. I like her, shes beautiful. I don't know how to necessarily get over her when we hang out constantly, even though I don't want to stop seeing her. Anyways, by Josh's request
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@ Josh no it was Delia park but nice. XD @ Luci, thanks for the advice. I think that is what I'm doing now. Over the past week (spring break) we've been hanging out a lot. Do I want a relationship? Maybe? =/ I'm not chasing her around being like "hey be my girl friend." *five minutes later* "Hey be my girl friend." I don't know I guess I'm over complicating it in my head. I like her, shes beautiful. I don't know how to necessarily get over her when we hang out constantly, even though I don't want to stop seeing her. Anyways, by Josh's request I'd tap that.
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^ Just lol.. Exactly.. XD
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I'm not even joking.
If she likes you back then go for it I say. As long as you can put up with her habits.
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I can put up with her habits, but I don't know if I necessarily like the fact shes sneaking around with other guys. I've learned she cheated on her ex boyfriend twice without him even knowing and that party I went to with her where she kissed some other guy and then later that night had sex with a different guy.. Even though she denies to this day what happened after the party, after three of her good friends told me she did. So its like :/.. She has stay away written all over her, yet I can't read for shit.
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It's gotta be your choice though dude. Do what you heart says, not your head. Because I've gone with my head and made so many wrong decisions.
Then again, I still can't work out women to this day.
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My hearts been walked over thousands of times.. I don't want to go through it all again. :/
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Yeah, I know what that feels like. But you've gotta make your own decision, we can't make it for you. (:
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but you guys are great with advice
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I still suggest just letting things go how they will. Wait for her to make it more obvious if she likes you. Otherwise, she might just date you knowing she can cheat or something. Don't give in to her just because she's pretty. Follow your heart, but don't be stupid. Ya know?
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I'm 18 and I've never had a drink..
Last Edit: Apr 16, 2010 0:29:37 GMT by Tobias
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#intj (Mastermind)^
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I'm 18 and I've never had a drink.. I'm 20 and never had a drink.
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I'm 18 and I've never had a drink.. I'm 20 and never had a drink. I'm 19 and have had many bouts with cigarettes, alcohol, and other drugs. Ya know, as long as we're sharing. @ Josh no it was Delia park but nice. XD @ Luci, thanks for the advice. I think that is what I'm doing now. Over the past week (spring break) we've been hanging out a lot. Do I want a relationship? Maybe? =/ I'm not chasing her around being like "hey be my girl friend." *five minutes later* "Hey be my girl friend." I don't know I guess I'm over complicating it in my head. I like her, shes beautiful. I don't know how to necessarily get over her when we hang out constantly, even though I don't want to stop seeing her. Anyways, by Josh's request Not only does she smoke and drink, but she's ugly. (No offense, that's my opinion) Drinking and Smoking is enough to turn me off. Though your opinion is your own, it doesn't really help. Hotshot DOES find her attractive, so I doubt your opinion is gonna change that.
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